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Five Things I Learned About Writing From My Poet Dad

4/6/2017

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Dikkon Eberhart

     Dad was prominent as a poet.  When I was young, I longed not to be a poet. 

      I’d be anything—a quarterback, an FBI agent, a ship captain.  But in my soul, I knew I would end up as a chip off Dad’s block.  Alas, I was a word-smith, too. 

        So I watched Dad, to learn how. 

         
                                   One
                             Read, read, read.

 
     Read any style, content, genre, author, date—it doesn’t matter.

       “We pour our souls into these words, Dikkon. You need to learn to identify writing that’s worth that effort and writing that’s not.”

      Once, after Dad breezed through an erotic novel I showed him, drily he responded, “Chaucer did it better.”
                                     
 

                                    Two

                                  Just Start
 
     
 "I can’t write it,” I moaned, regarding my short story assignment in high school. “It’s too hard!”

       Dad caught Mom’s urging eye, put down his pipe, and asked me, “What’s your story about?”

       “When they’re choosing up teams, the boy wants to be picked first but maybe he won’t be.”

        “And?”

     “I don’t know!  Maybe he isn’t picked first, but maybe he hits the home run.  It’s due tomorrow!”

        “Try making the story about his thoughts.”

        “About his thoughts?”

      “Yes.  Try starting with the word ‘maybe.’”  Dad grinned.  “Maybe the story is about maybe.”

       So I wrote the story and submitted it on time.  Its first sentence was “Maybe I’ll be picked first but maybe not.”  
 
 

                                    Three
                              Bring the reader in.
 

        “Do you like it?” Dad asked. 

        “It’s assigned.” 

        “Not what I asked.”

         “Then, no.  It’s boring.” 

       “Do you think maybe the author’s just writing for himself and maybe for his closest friends?”

       I hadn’t thought of that as a possibility.  The author was a major name in modernist English fiction—the focus of my college class. 
       
         Dad pressed on, “Do you think it’s important that you be drawn in?”

         “Who?  Me?”

         “You’re his reader, aren’t you?”

        I laughed.  “I wouldn’t be his reader, not if I could help it.”

       “So…that’s my point.  Yes, the reader must come to the writer, but the reader will come to the writer only when he’s drawn in, not forced in.”

         “That’s not happening here.”

         “So when you’re a writer….”

          I nodded.  “Bring ‘em in.”

          “Atta boy.”
 


       
                                    Four

       Don’t go to sleep until you know what happens next. 

 
       “No,” Dad said.  “I don’t believe in writer’s block.”

       “It’s my first novel, Dad.  I can’t get past the point where I am.  You’re a poet, not a novelist.  How could you know?”

        “What’s the last scene you wrote?”

         I told him.

        “Go back and write it again.”

        “What’s wrong with it?”

      “Doesn’t matter.  Probably nothing.  But write it again--create it over again.  Your juices will begin to flow again, and you’ll speed on.”

        Turns out he was right—I sped on.
 


                                   Five

                                Don’t let it fester. 

 
      I called Dad. 

    Two days before, I had finished my second novel, doing its last sixty pages in an eighteen-hour burst of ecstatic—almost holy—writing.  “It’s done, Dad.”

       “Congratulations!”

       “I’m exhausted.”

       “Of course. Get a rest.”

       “Tell Mom.”

       “Of course. So…what’s next?”

     “I read it over.  I think it’s good.  Gotta do some tweaks.”

       “Do that.  But then—get it off your desk.”
   
       “What do you mean?”

      “Don’t let it fester.  Get it out into the world.  If you tweak it too much, you could kill it.  Now let an editor tell you what to do. ”
 
 
 
        HERE’S A BONUS BECAUSE YOU KEPT ON READING!
 

                         A Sixth Thing I Learned

                                       Keep trying.
 

      Sitting in our garden one day, Robert Frost turned to me and remarked, “Dikkon, the work of the poet is to write at least one single poem that they can’t get rid of.  They’ll try.  But don’t let ‘em.”
 
                                           
    
                                      ***

 
                           If You are Not a Writer,        
                 God has blessed you with a different burden.
 
                          But your rules are just the same.
 
One
Steep yourself in all available wisdom.

Two

Begin, even when you are afraid to begin.

Three

Engage with those outside of yourself by understanding what they desire.

Four

When stuck, allow your spirit to be refreshed by starting over.

Five

When finished, bring the others in.
 
 
                           
​                                   And a Bonus!

 
    Keep working, work hard, but take The Longer View. 

                               You may win.

                              You may not win.

                                But you tried.
 


7 Comments
Mark Graham
4/7/2017 03:23:58 pm

A wonderful application from the writing of sentences to the writing of the doing of life. And you suddenly have inspired me to want to go and write. Which is why I have just written this comment!

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Dikkon
4/7/2017 05:06:44 pm

Mark, you make me laugh! I'm glad you were inspired to write by this.

That which inspires your real writing is so much grander!

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Katie Andraski link
4/7/2017 08:14:38 pm

There's so much wisdom here for writing and life.

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Dikkon
4/8/2017 09:59:55 am

Katie, I'm so glad you saw this piece! I was thinking of you when I selected it for posting because of my pleasure to have just read your engaging novel THE RIVER CAUGHT SUNLIGHT. I think Dad would have admired what you achieved.

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Katie Andraski link
4/11/2017 04:17:43 pm

Thanks so much. That is very kind of you to say. Have you thought of submitting this piece to Brevity? I don't know if they take previously published blog posts but it sure seems like something they would use...

floyd link
4/13/2017 10:43:59 am

This was great! Love the peek into your life. And thanks for sharing such wonderful and colorful wisdom. This is a keeper!!!

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Dikkon
4/13/2017 12:42:53 pm

Thank you, Floyd. I wish you a wonderful Easter!

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